During the
month of June we set a new personal record for grading events for
Graduate and Expert levels. Around 80 people were tested, about 20% of
them will need to take extra periods for repetitions and then get
re-tested on part or the whole material (all depends on the results).
Simply put – they failed to reach the needed level (the demand is a high
score of 80%).
After the
Expert level test on the 16th of June, when we had several people who
did not manage to pass the levels of Expert 1, 2 or 3, I gave a short
speech before delivering the results and brought the example of one of
the examinees, Lasse from Finland. Lasse did not manage to pass the
Expert test in his own country. What he did afterward definitely
deserves our attention. He did his best to get better. He did not feel
sorry for himself (and if he did it was not seen or talked aboutJ).
Lasse came to the expert level training in Hungary when we held an
E-camp. He got there not feeling well and participated partially.He then
arrived to Israel for the E-camp and I am sure he trained in Finland
too. His level improved significantly. He passed the test in Israel.
This is definitely an achievement.
Are you
going for a test? All you can do is your best. Do the best preparation
and best test you can. Take this mission seriously, but don’t take
yourself seriously. You have no control over what the examiner is
thinking. You can’t see things through the eyes of the examiner. You
can’t control his mind, so you have only one thing to do – your best.
This is the way to influence the results and outcome. Others (the
examiners) will make the decision whether you pass or fail. You must not
be influenced mentally by this. Be firm and indifferent. Focus on the
doing so stress will not arise and will not influence your performances.
Occupy yourself with the action, with the practice.
How is the
examiner expected to behave during the test? The examiner should
function as a doctor during an operation on a patient. For a high level
doctor it doesn’t matter if the patient is old or young, male or female,
ugly or beautiful. The doctor shouldn’t care if the patient is an old
friend or a complete stranger. There should be no emotional influence or
impact on the examiner, except for the fact that the trainee in front
of him deserves the maximum attention and respect. Remember that this is
a person that needs evaluation for his or her abilities, that this
person has got an instructor who was teaching him/her for a certain
period of time. The instructor of the trainee should have done, within
his/her limitations and power, the best to prepare the trainee for the
grading. Even if the instructor didn’t do that (regardless of what may
have caused this), still the respect should be there. Naturally the
instructor and the trainee should get feedback about the levels and
mistakes, the outcomes and means of improvement.
If the
trainee passed the test, what does itmean? It only says that the trainee
got a sufficient mark to pass the test. It does not mean that there
were no mistakes. Naturally there is always room for improvement.
Remember – when we check a specific technique, let’s say a strike or a
defense against a knife attack, the P1 trainee will be able to pass
after exhibiting a certain level. However, if a G1 or an E1 trainee
shows the same level as a P1, that trainee will probably fail. The “name
of the game” is training, getting better, excelling.
If you
(trainee going through the grading) pass the test, should you be happy?
Perhaps, but this is surely not recommended, as it often leads to the
negligence of the duties and the serious approach to training. Sometimes
people stop training after reaching a certain grade, sometimes even
after passing a P1 test. After the test, definitely one should look for
any remarks from the examiner, feedback and mistakes that need to be
improved.
At KMG we
try to take a segment of the grading closer to reality. But the grading
is not reality and will never be. The test shows the level at what the
test is checking. There’s no 100% correlation between a test and
reality. Some people may be good in getting tested but may find it
harder to function under real “street” conditions; some people will be
the opposite. It is like certain types of athletes who are good at
training but will usually fail in competition.
And what if
you failed a test? What should you do then? Should you complain and put
the blame and responsibility on the examiner (whom you can’t control and
whom should have acted like the doctor during an operation)? Should you
say that the examiner liked your partner and dislikes you because you
were better than others? Maybe you should lie down and stomp with your
feet on the ground? That may have worked on your parents when you were 4
years old and helped you get the toy you desired. Surely the fact that
your parents surrendered to your childish behaving made it harder for
you to handle failure and cope with disappointments.
What should
you do? There is only one way. Understand and accept that the examiner
thought you were not good enough, that you need more training, more
experience, more monitoring by a qualified instructor. Use this
opportunity to get tools and capabilities to deal with failure and
disappointment. Start spending time and put more effort to get better,
to clear and clean your mistakes. This may need an effort of 2 hours per
week for couple of months or 10 times more than that if you have deeper
gaps in knowledge and abilities. Accept the fact that you may not be
who you thought you were and still you are a unique person, someone who
is able to reach great heights, perform excellently and do great deeds.
All you need is to continue, because if you stop now you will never make
it.
AND you
should be thankful for the examiner who put that hurdle, that step, that
barrier in front of you – for this is the opportunity to improve and
excel. That examiner was merely a mirror that was placed in-front of you
and showed you who and where you are (in the world of KMG) and then
sent you to improve “your looks”.
Train well and get better.
All the best and be safe,
http://www.kravmaga-midlands.com
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